Advent Devotion #4: Joy

Here we are…it is Christmas week! In the final, fourth chapter of Ruth, we see the Joy that results from Faith, Hope and Love. Making good on his promise to Ruth, Boaz meets with a nearer kinsman and offers him the right of redemption. When the man realizes that marrying Ruth is part of the deal, he declines. He is afraid that the union will jeopardize his own inheritance. One commentator said, “God did Boaz the honor to bring him into the line of the Messiah, while the kinsman, who was afraid of lessening himself, and marring his inheritance, has his name, family, and inheritance forgotten.”
Next, Boaz and Ruth are married. It is a household of joy, blessed with the birth of a son. Naomi, once despondent, depressed, hopeless, now busies herself caring for her grandbaby. At one time she told the other women her name was “Mara” (bitterness). Now the women make a prophetic statement to her: “Praise be to the Lord, who this day has not left you without a kinsman-redeemer. May he become famous throughout Israel! He will renew your life and sustain you in your old age….” (Ruth 4:14,15) In the story of Ruth, we see that faith, hope, love and joy set in changed the course of history: “to Salmon was born Boaz, and to Boaz Obed, and to Obed was born Jesse, and to Jesse, David.” (Ruth 4:21, 22) These four qualities can do the same for us…they can be the road to changing the course of my history. This week, amid the shopping, wrapping, cooking, visiting, mailing, calling, and other doing, I hope that faith, hope, love and joy invade your life in a new and intimately personal way. Merry Christmas!
In closing, there are some thoughts I had in studying the Book of Ruth that I think are worth sharing.
• The Holy Spirit uses situations of hardship, difficulty, and losses in our lives to expose and/or exercise our faith.
• The Lord can use anyone to accomplish His purposes. There is no ethnic or social pedigree for a humble and trusting heart.
• Even a little faith, if we will act on it, is enough to make a huge difference.
• The blessing and provision of God is not dependent upon the culture around us.
• Clinging in fear to the past or the present may rob us of a future blessing.
• Entrusted to Jesus’ loving hands, even the most bitter of sorrows can be turned to joy.

May your Christmas find your heart at the scene of a manger in Bethlehem, where the King of glory laid aside His prestige and power and entered our world as a tiny baby. Together, I hope we rediscover the wonder of this miraculous event and celebrate in a new way the glorious gift of Jesus, the Savior, Messiah, and Kinsman Redeemer. Joy to the world! The Lord is come!

Advent, Week 3: Love

In this third week of Advent, our focus is love. In Ruth 3, we learn that not only does Boaz have compassion for Ruth; he loves her. Following the instructions of Naomi, Ruth lays at the feet of the sleeping Boaz. There is nothing sordid here. Because he is a close relative, Naomi is within her rights to ask that he become the kinsman redeemer for her. The reaction of Boaz shows that he does not act out of obligation, his heart has embraced this industrious, principled woman of excellence. He takes quick action to become the kinsman redeemer.
The idea of “redemption” in the Old Testament conveys these principles:
1. Redemption is simply deliverance from some sort of bondage, a release of someone or something from an alien power that has a claim on it.
2. The biblical idea of redemption also involves the deliverer and what he must do to effect the deliverance.
3. What he must do, or the price he must pay, is known as the redemption price or ransom.
4. Release from the claim must be effected by someone who, for whatever reason, has a prior or more fundamental claim toward what is to be delivered.
Further, the law required that the Kinsman Redeemer must fulfill four qualifications. He must:
1. Be related by blood to those he redeems.
2. Be able to pay the price of redemption.
3. Be willing to redeem.
4. Be free himself (in other words, a slave could not redeem another slave).
What a heart-rending picture of who Jesus is and what He has done for us! He has released us from the bondage and power of sin by paying our ransom. Because He is the Lord of all, He has the right to do so—He has a “prior claim” over Satan! He is able and willing to redeem us, and because of His sinless, perfect life, He is free to redeem us to Himself! Like Boaz, Jesus loves His bride. The price of redemption is costly, but it has been paid in full.
Think on it… “What marvelous love the Father has extended to us! Just look at it—we're called children of God! That's who we really are.” 1 John 3:1 (The Message).
This week, there are no introspective questions. Take some time each day to pause and think of His great love for you. Jesus loves you with an everlasting, all-consuming, tender, redeeming and perfecting love. If you seek Him, you will find Him—if you seek Him with all your heart.
What a gift we are offered! There is no appropriate response other than adoration to the One who lavishes such love upon us! His love covers every sin, every hurt, every doubt, every shortcoming, every mistake, every fear.
Tell Him every day how much you love Him. Think about Him as you go through your days. The delight of His presence is His kiss upon your head.
Your Kinsman Redeemer has come!

Jillian's 11th Birthday

Dad and Jillian at Bread of Life for Birthday Breakfast

"It's a blender!"

A jacket for a young lady.

Jillian is delighted with Chau's gift: a Dove chocolate bar!
Hello, all-
I wanted to record some details of Jillian's 11th birthday, which was
yesterday, December 9. Eleven! I can hardly believe it! She is quite a
young lady now. Part child, part pre-teen, part Yoda; part little girl,
part pop star, part Einstein. I am in awe to be her mother. Thank you,
Lord.

About the gifts. Tony and I gave her a certificate to attend a cooking
class in the ancient city of Hoi An with me. It is a 5-hour experience
with a boat ride, visit to the local market, and two hours of cooking,
culminating with lunch.

From Grandmom, a lovely brown jacket and scarf. It looks great on her!

From Faith and Joy: A small "brief case" that she admired at a local
bookstore. I had to talk them into it, and as a compromise, I let them
each choose a smaller gift. Joy got a little plastic music box with
flowers that spin as a song plays. It lights up. Joy thinks it is so
beautiful. Faith had her heart set on getting Jillian a teddy bear. We
found a small one with pants and a shirt on. Faith likes it so much she
has requested one for her birthday (which is this coming Wednesday, Dec.
16).

From Anna Mei and Elizabeth: A blender. It may sound odd, but Jillian
has wanted one forever. They had to pool their money to do it. I am so
proud of them. They talked for quite awhile about what to get their older
sister, but they were so excited when they came upon the blender idea.
Needless to say, several milkshakes have been enjoyed by all.

Breakfast with Dad: Like last year, Tony is treating the girls to a
birthday breakfast at a western restaurant called Bread Of Life. It is
owned by our pastor and his wife. Bread Of Life employs deaf Vietnamese
teenagers and young adults. It is a great place with great food.

Cooking with Bee: Jillian's party was a family/staff affair at lunch. The
menu was all Vietnamese, except for the cake I made with the girls. For
dinner, Jillian had requested hamburgers and french fries. Bee had never
made hamburgers, so we cooked them together. As we started to make the
patties, she coated her hands with cooking oil. I followed suit, but I
was glad to use just a small bit...not long before, Bee had used that oil
to make the french fries. It was still quite hot! One funny thing: I
had asked Bee to pick up some ketchup at the store. When we were setting
the table, I could not find it. Bee looked perplexed and then pointed to
a bottle of red sauce..."Chili sauce." I showed her the picture of
tomatoes on the nearly empty ketchup bottle we had, then the picture of
the small red chilies on the new bottle. Bee's mouth dropped open.
Apparently, she shops only by color. The name of the sauce was in
English, both sauces are red and she didn't pay attention to the pictures.
Interestingly, I had also wanted onions for the burgers. Bee came home
without them...Big C (one of the biggest grocery stores in Danang) had
none.

A few other gifts: Jillian received clothes from Duc and Linh; some small
electric lanterns for her room from Enoch and Mariss; a beautiful handmade
card from Quyen; a genuine Dove chocolate bar from Chau; and from Bee,
underclothes. True to her practical joking nature, Bee had wrapped the
underwear in a box that once contained a clock. My unsuspecting,
mortified 11 year-old almost showed the unmentionables at the table in
mixed company. Bee, of course, was chuckling the whole time.

What a privilege to see this little girl grow into a loving young lady. I
could not be more proud of her. We are blessed too know that so many of
you join us in praying for her!

Grace and peace!

Hope

The workmen rebuild a wall. Notice the helmet "hardhat."
The front courtyard. Workers use a rope and bucket to move sand and other materials.

This will soon be a laundry area.

Hello, all--
A couple of things have happened this week that have made me think more
about the relationship between faith and hope.
The first is the renovation work on the new orphanage here in Danang that
we hope to see in operation by January. I wish I could describe it to
you. It is a blessing from God! There are four buildings in the
compound. One building will house the Orphan Voice offices. The second
has rooms for the residential staff, the boys and a study
room/library/computer room. The third building includes the kitchen,
cafeteria and boys bathrooms and showers downstairs, with the girls'
rooms, a caregiver's room and their showers/bathrooms. The last building
is mostly a gymnasium, with a storage area. There are two courtyard
areas, one with a brick floor, the other with grass. It is going to be
welcoming, cozy and pretty. To see it today, that is a statement of
faith. Right now, the paint is chipped, dirty and mismatched (we ordered
paint today). Broken bricks, debris and trash are everywhere. The trees
in the courtyard are sparse from damage left by Typhoon Ketsana. But
faith gives us a vision of what it can be--what in fact it is becoming day
by day as a crew works (wearing motorbike helmets for hardhats!). Faith
has the ability to look past the current circumstance and surroundings and
understand "becoming."
The second incident that really got me thinking happened yesterday. I had
taken Anna Mei and Elizabeth to the Big C shopping center so they could
get Jillian a birthday present (she turned 11 today!). On our way to the
check out, Anna Mei spotted a pair of roller blades--the item on the top
of her Christmas wish list. She was at the point of tears. She does not
have enough money from her allowance to buy them. The store has one pair.
What she does not know is that another pair is here, safely hidden for
her to unwrap on Christmas morning. She was so distraught it was very
hard for me not to tell her. (I was so glad that we had not told
Elizabeth about Anna Mei's gift--I know she would have HAD to tell her!)
Finally, I told Anna Mei to trust in the love of her mom and dad for her
to provide good things. I felt the Holy Spirit nudge me. That is exactly
what He asks of me. When the desires of my heart seem unattainable, faith
in His unfailing love will cause hope to blossom that whatever He has for
me is good.
May your faith-full relationship with the Lord give rise to unshakeable
hope. You and I have a heavenly Father who knows how to give good gifts
to His children. If we ask Him for bread, can we really think that He
will give us a stone...or a snake?

Years ago, a friend of mine sang a song at our church in Virginia. After more than a dozen years, I remember one line in particular: "When you can't see His hand, trust His heart."

Grace and peace!

PS Someone sent us a link to the website for CBN Worldreach. They have
an article about their involvement in partnering with other ministries to
provide typhoon relief in Vietnam. We are one of those "others" and the
picture in the article shows our staff member Duc delivering aid. If you
would like to take a look at the article, the link is
http://www.cbn.com/worldreach/articles/article_typhoon_vietnam_dec09.aspx

Advent, Week 2: Hope

For this second week of Advent, we will focus on the quality of Hope. At the beginning of chapter 2, we find Naomi and Ruth in Bethlehem. The outlook had to be a bit frightening for the two women. But, faith has kindled hope. Ruth decides to look for work “gleaning” in the fields. Gleaning was a way that the Lord had instructed Israel to allow the poor to get food. A portion of the harvest was to be left, easily accessible to the poor. It was not a career. In fact, laws prevented gleaners from taking extra food to store. Gleaning was considered humiliating. For a young, single woman at this time, it was also dangerous. Yet Ruth does not despair. She does not scheme to devise a way to engage in more “honorable” work. She goes in hope. And she is not disappointed. One writer wisely pointed out, “Sin is a thing below us, but we must not think anything else so, to which Providence call us.”
The Lord leads Ruth to a field belonging to a wealthy man named Boaz, who just happens to be a close relative of Naomi. He takes note of Ruth and learns of her situation. As a result, he provides for Ruth’s safety and success in her work. The kindness of Boaz is noteworthy in its own right. I couldn’t help but wonder if his compassion for a courageous woman of questionable background was learned as a child from his mother, another courageous woman of questionable background. Her name was Rahab.
When Naomi learns of all that has happened, her own hope is rekindled. When she and Ruth first returned to Israel, she told the other women that the Lord had witnessed against her. Now, she recognizes that the Lord has not withdrawn His kindness from her.
Hope was Ruth’s response to hardship. Bible commentator Matthew Henry writes, “It is not affliction itself, but affliction rightly borne, that does us good.”
This week, as we think about hope and what it means for our own lives, here are some questions to reflect upon…
• How do I respond to the hard situations in my life right now? Is my “affliction rightly borne”?
• Have I let faith ignite hope in me?
• Am I being asked to do something that I consider to be “beneath” me?
• Am I jealous or resentful over the position, accomplishments, or abilities of someone else?
Hope is a great sustainer in times of hardship and dark uncertainty. The faithfulness of God tells us that hope is not stubborn foolishness. We have experiential evidence that God will not abandon us, will not allow us to suffer more than we can endure. The Psalmist knew it well when he wrote,
Why are you in despair, O my soul? And why have you become disturbed within me? Hope in God, for I shall again praise Him For the help of His presence. (Ps. 42:5)
As we approach Christmas, let’s hope in God with confidence in His great love. We have every reason to expect that, like Ruth, we will not be disappointed.
Grace and peace!